I'm saying this as a huge fan of the positive impact of ketamine.
There are some symptoms that seem like they need more rewiring.
I’ve done 20 ketamine sessions over the past 2 years (the last one about 5 months ago). I agree with you that a lot of the immediate relief from an infusion can fade after not that long. However, combined with some of the other work I was doing there was a slow accumulation of benefits and new perspectives on life.
Overall, the infusions definitely helped… it hasn’t been easy going though, and I have been continuing to work on myself.
A few months ago, I finally found a therapist who I felt was actually helping me. I had tried a few different therapists in years past and it wasn’t that helpful. My current therapist uses a lot of “somatic therapy” in her work, which I think is really important. With trauma, talk alone won’t get you very far.
I’ve made a lot of progress since November when I started seeing her. I think the Ketamine and the work I had been doing on my on own “prepped” me in a certain sense.
Your friend might benefit from finding a good somatic therapist.