If it's a persistent pattern and not just a result of stress and poor culture - not always easy to tell - they're likely on the Dark Triad spectrum.

Or at the very least they don't like you personally and are trying to bully you.

It's not usually about the presented issue. The relationship dynamics are the real truth.

Everyone has bad days. But if interactions consistently take this direction - especially to the point where anticipating them causes anxiety - it's time to consider moving on.