> This makes it sound like they're unreasonable or aggressive, which is very much not the case.
That's a judgement/point of view call.
Having been swooped and attacked just for trying to walk down my driveway it's definitely easy to call it unreasonable and aggressive.
> you will have a reputation with them and (assuming you don't go out of your way to harass them and ruin said reputation) they will not bother to swoop
Maybe true in some rare cases, but I've not heard of that happening frequently without some kind of active relationship (such as through feeding). The magpies I lived near as a kid never got used to humans, and never let me pass without swooping.