Implying that forgetting a date and forgetting a person are equivalent.
The system is not solving the "I forgot this person exists" issue. It is solving the "nothing prompts me to contact this person without having reason to" issue.
Or "nothing overcomes issues that say do not contact, you're not worth their time"
When you have ADHD, things often only come to mind via triggers, and many people in the tech community have ADHD.