> listening, and exercising my capacity for empathy, and trying to be pleasant to be around
None of that matters if you aren’t attractive. You have to be attractive for girls to swipe right on you and start a conversation in the first place.
None of that matters if you aren’t attractive. You have to be attractive for girls to swipe right on you and start a conversation in the first place.
Also, in regards to longer-term relationships, if this is true:
> You have to be attractive for girls to swipe right on you and start a conversation in the first place.
Then they're probably not the right ones to be starting a conversation with.
Why? Aren't women entitled to be attracted by phisique and by passing good genes?
Again, looking in any maternity ward at the fathers you'll see many conventionally unattractive men.
As 'rdtwo notes, though, it does take practice and commitment and it does take time.