I have only a handful of people that know and we negotiated that face to face prior, Signal breaks that trust
I have only a handful of people that know and we negotiated that face to face prior, Signal breaks that trust
Are there communities out there where someone being on signal is a red flag?
Don't know about Signal, but Whatsapp does the same thing (advertise to your contacts that you have a whatsapp account) and I find it extremely offensive.
Context: I am an ardent anti-whatsapp activist, thus I don't have a whatsapp account. This activism has created quite a stir in my family and made a lot of people angry, yet I stick about it. I have forced many of my close family and friends to use a different communication channel with me, and I have lost the contact of quite a few acquaintances. When my dad died a few months ago, her wife needed to talk to me (and I needed to talk to her quite a lot). She was not really in the mood for listening to my techno-activism platitudes, and I was not in the mood to perform them, so I had to open a whatsapp account. Since all the people who I had forced to stop using whatsapp to talk to me would have felt alienated by this at this point, I needed to take a new phone number to talk to my stepmom via whatsapp.
This is a concrete example of why advertising the fact that I have a whatsapp account is an extremely annoying anti-feature. I'm sure there are similarly legitimate reasons for disliking the same feature in Signal. In any case, for a platform that has the privacy of users as one of its main tenets, this is a clear-cut case of anti-privacy feature. I can imagine reasonable people avoiding Signal precisely for this.
Absolutely. Outside of the tech industry, people have a "reason" for using Signal. My wife remarked one day that one of her coworkers (a plant operator) suddenly appeared on Signal. I mused that he is probably cheating on his wife. She found out a few weeks later that my hunch was correct.
Other people I've seen on it I've been able to deduce that they're using it for drug purchases (simply by process of elimination, nothing else made sense) even when I didn't already know they were into recreational drugs.
In some circles, Signal is used just for general conversation. But in most, it's not. So being on it is a pretty strong signal that you're doing something 'important' on it...and usually its easy for friends and neighbors to narrow down what that is.
And then there's my mom, she's on a grandfathered mobile plan that charges her $1 every day that she sends any text messages. I got her on signal so she didn't have to pay the $1 when she texts me. She got her whole church music group to switch for the same reason.
Adobe doesn't tell everyone that I own Photoshop. Gmail doesn't tell everyone that I have a Gmail email. PornHub doesn't tell everyone that I subscribe to their premium account.
Why the fuck does Signal need to? Broadcast should be off by default, on by opt-in.
https://support.signal.org/hc/en-us/articles/360007061452-Do...
It doesn’t send the number to them - Signal don’t get the contact list from your phone. It uses a very clever private contact discovery protocol.
The reason their phone has to know is so that they can then message you. Otherwise there would be no way to message people - a phone has to know who is on Signal to be able to do that.
While the notification could be off by default, since the phone necessarily has to know when your contacts are on Signal for the app to function, it is being transparent about the privacy situation.
Details of the private contact discovery system:
Adobe and PornHub don't have the contacts list. Google likely does but maybe they are restrained by privacy laws.
I don't know precisely how Signal does things, but I know this can be an issue on Telegram - and I assume they work similarly. I can see a lot of reasons folks might not be fans of phone-number-as-ID, especially when it alerts folks that you've joined, or gives folks who merely possess your phone number an easy way of viewing your profile details.
I think the first quality E2EE messaging service that provides users an alternative to phone-as-ID could give Telegram/Signal (not that the former is necessarily E2EE) a serious run for their money among privacy-conscious users and members of fringe communities.
- the person is in your own contact list
- you create a conversation with them
- you accept a conversation from them
see: https://support.signal.org/hc/en-us/articles/360007459591
That's what I observe by using Axolotl on the phone and Signal Desktop on the computer.
Sure, but this is realistically a tiny group, and development effort is probably better spent making the 99% that don't fall into this category happier rather than prioritizing features needed for the 1%.
Let people decide for themselves what in their lives is OK to share with others. You don't need to know the reason why.
The behavior which is reliably objected to by someone on HN, every time Signal is mentioned, is that the app sends a user an alert when someone in their contacts list is on Signal.
Phone numbers are the only resolution mechanism in Signal. Should that change? Separate question.
Having someone's phone number is by definition a way to contact them. Registering for Signal is by definition agreeing that anyone who searches for your phone number can send you a message on Signal.
What is the privacy violation in pushing awareness of that affordance? What about pull-only is better?
Signal does what I want it to here, and my trouble understanding why someone would be ok with everything about Signal except the push notification on join to people who have your number is genuine.
It's easy for me to understand why people don't like that a phone number is inherent to Signal, don't much care for it myself. But it's unrelated.
A username kinda restore that, but it could be taken a step further and ask for a secret token when adding contacts. That way you know exactly who has you in their contact list, and this token could be revoked (equivalent of blocking the person).
And pleas don't respond with "you could just block them" that not in line with how the psych of many, especially vulnerable people work.
Also pleas don't respond with "you can just change your number", for many people changing their number is hard which again for some vulnerable people can mean it's basically impossible.
Sure it's not a "my whole live will be messed up because of it" feature, but it easily can be very very unpleasant.
Like as an harmless example I know someone who completely changed their live and do not really want to have contact with anyone from their old circle of friends (not because of them being bad people, but because of the memories this includes). But they are to polite and insecure to outright block them, similar changing the number isn't an option for them. And guess what happened recently Signal told me: Hy person X joined Signal. I knew better then to contact them, but I wouldn't be surprised if this caused them quite a bit of distress/discomfort.
Anyway, I'm fine that people which have my number can write me over signal, or that their app knows when the number is changed, to warn if the old number is used and hint at you when you try to contact the old number. I'm not happy about Signal (and others) actively telling everyone "Hy this person did [join|change number]". It's unnecessary and for some people harmful.
You draw the attention of people with whom you have perhaps decided to let the relationship cool, and suddenly: "Hey, [YOURNAME] is here! Remember him? And how you have unfinished business? Why don't you message him right now?" :-(
Can't a person who wants to know if you are on signal do so simply by starting a message to you?
Are you suggesting that simply making this less convenient on the client will somehow discourage someone who is determined to figure this out about you?
But who knows, the private contact discovery is quite magical so maybe there’s a way….
I use a virtual number for Signal and any such services, and it's a different virtual number than the one I give to humans.
On the other side of associating me with people, I'm also looking for an Apple iOS update that lets me upload just some contacts, when an app asks.