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> Am I a bad person if I keep pretending for a couple of years until she finishes her studies, gets a good job and then break up?

I’m no relationship expert, but I’m sure she wouldn’t appreciate finding out her life the past X years has been a lie.

The sooner the better, as bad as it sounds.

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Of course I wouldn't ever tell her the truth of when I decided to get a divorce. It would devastate her to find her past X years have been a lie and I'd just be a great a*hole.

I'm trying to think in the best outcome for both, because even thought I don't love her romantically anymore, I really wish her the best for her life and I would like her to find someone else that might be better husband than me (if that's what she wants of course).

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