I had just started the book when I watched her video, and I counted four separate times where he did mention total energy gain. In one chapter (pg. 142 in my kindle edition), he quotes from a source who lays out the distinction she claims people in fusion research want you to be confused about:
Like First Light Fusion, Tokamak Energy is much more interested in power production than energy breakeven. "Achieving a of one is a scientific goal," Jonathan Carling continues, "but it's nowhere near enough to produce commercial energy, which requires a Q [in the region] of tens." As mentioned previously, Q is the ratio of fusion power out to heating power in. His strong view is that unless other star builders have a credible plan to get to factors of twenty or thirty more power out than they put in, then they're in the science game and not the fusion energy game.
This video by the Improbable Matter channel has a good response to Dr. Hossenfelder's general remarks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtqC8W0_Ups