The cost of living is just so crazy high here though, $2.5m for a starter home in SV. More in some parts. You’d need a household income of 500k/yr to even qualify for that mortgage.
While cost of housing is indeed crazy high, 2.5M for a starter home is quite an exageration.
Here's ~300 listings for under $1M:
https://www.zillow.com/homes/for_sale/house,condo,apartment_...
So, yeah, different expectations.