The available evidence includes many galaxies. "Seems to have too much mass" and "seems not to have too much mass" are both things that a correct theory
has to explain. It's not sufficient to explain one at a time with kettle logic.
Are you sure that any theory which allows for different things happening in different locations is inherently and unavoidably meaningless? Or is there something else that bothers you?
I would like to understand why people such as yourself viscerally dismiss "dark matter" as if it were inconsistent with all science and rational thinking. Can you describe what's obviously special about it compared to all of the other things we can't see and take for granted?
I assume we all accept the idea of matter that is invisible because it is cold and doesn't emit light...there's nothing particularly weird about asteroids and planets adrift far from stars that are "dark" due to lack of light, right?
And electromagnetic radiation that we can't see is everyday stuff right? Like radio waves, and ultraviolet, and infrared, and x-rays? There's nothing weird about feeling the heat from something and not seeing the rays that carry it, correct?
Everybody knows that nuclear radiation can kill you while being completely invisible, right? Gamma rays and neutrons don't look like anything.
It's not weird that gases are invisible, like air. We all accept that air is around us and without contaminants is transparent.
Gravity itself is invisible, and we take for granted that it exists. Gravitational wave detectors correlate sometimes with visual events, meaning the invisible gravitational waves have definitely traveled over unimaginable distances, passing through everything in the way without being affected.
Neutrino detectors are old hat at this point. Neutrinos are incredibly unlikely to interact with what they pass through, so the detectors have gigantic amounts of material underground with detectors to see mindbogglingly rare flashes when a neutrino hits something. I think neutrinos may still be a candidate for dark matter.
Sound is normally invisible, even though it is the motion of atoms around us which are real.
Heat is invisible within a normal range. If a frying pan is 350 degrees it doesn't look different from 250 degrees.
Electricity in a wire is invisible. Magnetic fields are invisible.
Even lasers made of light itself are invisible if you look from the side and there's no dust in the air.
Are any of these besides "dark matter" unbelievable?