First, you don't know if they were married, of what their vows were.
Second, you have no idea what they've gone through, no understanding of their pain. If you have nothing constructive to say, no empathy, just shut up.
Second, you have no idea what they've gone through, no understanding of their pain. If you have nothing constructive to say, no empathy, just shut up.
The comment said "spouse" so married.
So we are in agreement that what's in the vows actually matter?
> just shut up.
Yah...how about not doing that here: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
Vows are not morally or legally binding. It’s good if people want to take them seriously but people leave each other for lesser things than decades long depression.