Because of the difficulty of applying objective disability effect proportions, however, YLL is a much easier metric to use and there's a lot more estimates available for it as well. I found an article estimating pandemic YLL in the U.S. over 2020 to be 7,362,555 (massive 95% PI though) [1]. Interestingly, they attribute only about three quarters of these to COVID itself and about one quarter to indirect effects of the pandemic, such as lockdown. Comparing against YLL values for leading causes of death from 2016 [2], the impact of COVID in 2020 was slightly less than that of ischemic heart disease (9,445,400 YLL) but comparable to the next four causes of death (lung cancer, RTAs, pulmonary disease, colo/rectal cancer) combined.
[1] https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0256835
[2] https://doi.org/10.1001/jama.2018.0158, Table 1
So the number of YLL lost to the small number of 25 year olds dying at their own hand is very very likely much smaller than the much larger number of 50-90 year olds dying.
Even the small number of YLL to the death of an elderly person in a care home still had knock on effects for the survivors, from delayed funerals to funerals as super spreader events.