Status-quoism is inherently repressive in any culture in which existing descrimination exists.
And yes, cognitive dissonance, especially aimed at cultural or tribal identity, hurts. Most people reject it.
I agree with all of those points.
I'm not arguing for status-quoism. I am suggesting what I've found to work reasonably well in promiting my own set of heterodox views, which include some shared by you, here on HN.
Neither the userbase nor the mods will respond well to direct confrontation. Even when they're sympathetic to a viewpoint, mods will act on the basis of how the site will respond to a comment rather than its message or viewpoint.
A recent example is here. I disagreed strongly with dang's moderation (and am still discussing the issue with him), though I see and get dang's guiding rule: the tone is all but certain to generate a flamefest rather than productive or insightful discussion. (That view guides very nearly all HN moderation, outside spam and personal attacks.)
dang's admonition was actually flagged and killed for a time. (It was later restored, though the "flagged" tag remains.)
Yes, it inherently puts all heterodox viewpoints at a disadvantage, and as I argued, the response was to a piece that was itself mindless ideological flamebait. It's really hard to counter the piece without explicitly pointing that out.
You'll have to have "showdead" enabled to see the start of this thread:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29489004
I'd made my own rebuttal to the article on that post. I applied some of the methods I've discussed here. No, it wasn't the top comment, but it did pretty well:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29490375
The point is that HN is not an open or unbiased field. It does have an establishment bias, and it has the means to serve that. It's not a venue in which direct confrontation is effective. I'm not saying that confrontation doesn't work ever, or that it's not ever justified. Defeating fascism required WWII. And a large part of the fight you're describing is a continuation of that battle.
HN is a venue in which a consistent effort over time does have effect. I'd joined the site years ago feeling myself something as an outsider. For what it's worth, I've had some success in posts and comments. And what I've used to best effect is:
- Repeated submissions of topics I think deserve greater attention. Most of those fail. Much of what I submit that does take root isn't what I'd most hope does. Sometimes I get lucky.
- Find ways of pointing out ... less than robust thinking or belief ... with a minimum of edge. This is one I consider fairly successful, as what I was muttering under my breath was "just think about what you're actually saying here". https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22133112
- Sometimes, be direct. In that case, I'll lay out my case first, and leave the knife for the end. I thought a few times before leaving the last 'graph of this comment, on balance I'm glad I did: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29669873
I've suggested you reach out to dang. I've contacted him on your behalf. I do hope you both take up the opportunity.
And good luck, I really and truly mean it. You're tackling an extremely valid cause, and one that I try to help where, when, and how I can.