You sound exactly like the snobby kids in the story, judging who can be proud of "making it" and who can't.
Anyone who doesn't own a couple houses or business should feel ashamed for not "making it".
People should not be ashamed for not owning a house. But they should also know that chance to buy a house for unqualified worker in NY is 0.001%. If there is a realistic view of situation in US, they may stay at their home country.
They fucking made it.
The financial risk analysis of college is very different when you're poor.
What the effing f? So they "chose" to be poor?