It's objectively a dumpster fire. I don't care about other languages also being a dumpster fire on the packaging front, because I don't use other languages :) It also doesn't help me to know that NPM or .NET have rubbish packaging systems, that's their problem and not mine. I'd primarily want python's packaging system to be good.
I mean, just look at this thread. Someone asks "So in light of this, what should I use for python packaging?", and they get two dozen different answers loaded with weirdness like pyenv, python-venv, virtualenvwrapper, etc... If I wasn't using python, I would've thought this is some cruel python in-joke that outsiders don't get.
Just looking at those names, I'm already confused as to what the hell each are doing and why do I need them?
But let's go back to pip and conda. Conda is unbearably slow. Pip is not entirely reliable in resolving versions properly. There's also not entirely cooperative interaction between conda and pip. If you use conda, you should not use pip (or just minimally) because it'll result in a mess.
Yes, packaging is hard, but it feels like python has managed to solve (or not solve) it in a uniquely obtuse and bad way so far.
Hopefully the slew of new PEPs will finally bring some clarity to this mess.