Unify Dream Machine, it's constantly out of stock, you have to keep checking Ubiquiti website to get it. It has cloud access which is used by app to monitor or control it from outside of your house, but you can disable it.
I also just find the UDMs interface an absolute shit show to navigate and find things.
Nope, don't trust them to do that after https://community.ui.com/questions/Ubiquiti-ignoring-auto-up...
They have dozens of products which they update constantly, picking one bug at one time as malice and blacklisting a company is not correct. If you go that route you won't have any company left to buy from.