> I understand how extending everyone’s life say 1 year starting tomorrow means fewer deaths (i.e. zero) next year, but after that it’s back to the same rate in deaths per year.
This is precisely what is meant by fewer deaths per year, it's now zero instead of the normal rate.
Similarly, if everybody's life is shortened by 1 year by something, there is an increase in death rate followed by a return.
I'm not sure why this concept elicited so many contrary comments. You already understand the concept, clearly, but I'm not 100% clear on what you are objecting to with your comment, or what meaning you are trying to communicate with this:
> but even if everyone maxed out at 120 years of lifespan the deaths per year will be equal to the number of people reaching 120 years old, and that is determined by how many people were born 120 years before.
Everybody still dies, but we only lived to 120 seems like a good outcome. But right. Effort that you said you are in favor of people living to 120, so what is the purpose of the rest of the paragraph?