I would think that not having a high school graduation / prom /recital /wedding etc to be a lot less ruinous than having a close relative die from one of these?
I agree with you: life is too short. Personally I would hate for it to be cut even shorter because all the hospital beds are taken up by people who contracted an avoidable, extremely infectious disease.
https://people.com/health/college-student-dies-from-covid-af...
https://www.newsweek.com/bride-planning-funeral-instead-wedd...