Actually, it is "pushes-flow-down-so-goes-up".
You remember? Action requires opposite and equal reaction?
Plane is (mostly) not a rocket and so to be able to fly it has to act on something and the only something up there is air. If the plane is being lifted it means a bunch of air needs to be pushed/dragged down.
Helicopter is a better way to visualize it.
Now, in a plane, once that air is pushed/dragged down it immediately starts doing funky things like vortices and so on, but at least initially the air is being pushed/dragged down.
I write "pushed/dragged down" because the air is deflected on both sides of the wing. On the low pressure side of the wing (hopefully for most people this is the upper side) it is being deflected by creating low pressure in a laminar flow. If that laminar low pressure flow state is lost and instead we get turbulences, those turbulences are really bad at inducing the air to go down. We say that "it has stalled".
EDIT:
The only way for something to stay up is to push off something. When you stay on the ground you push off the ground but when you are up there you have to push something else even to just stay at an altitude.
Wings, turbines, rocket engines, propellers, barn doors, these are just different ways to accomplish the same task -- push air (and very infrequently some other material) downwards.
A plane is different from a rocket in that the material is mostly air (and very tiny amount of fuel) and main mechanism of pushing it are wings and air breathing engines/turbines.
Some planes can have so much power that their main pushing mechanism is engine exhaust and additional air sped up by the turbine.
But most planes have engines that do not produce anywhere near what is needed to stay up this way. These planes use the engines to push (mostly) forward (there is slight downwards vector due to engine exhaust being in line with the plane body but AoA positive). These planes rely on air stream being deflected downwards as seen by the plane to be economical.