> I'm only comparing commercial os's here,
Excellent, then RHEL, SUSE, and Ubuntu should have a very good showing. Unless you mean that you're just looking at Windows and MacOS, in which case yeah you're going to have a bad time.
> there are linux's that have app stores that bother you and popups about updates [...]and icons in your start/dock/panel that you didn't ask for
I suppose that's true, although I find them a lot less annoying.
> and scheduled reboots
Now you've lost me; what Linux distros automatically reboot in their default configuration? (I know you can make unattended-upgrades do that, but you have to go out of your way to set that up)
> that come with browsers that populate favorites for you automatically
I think that's moving the goalposts? Was default bookmarks brought up yet?
> and update themselves as well as reset settings between updates so if you turn off the sponsored crap it often turns back on..
I'm only aware of that happening at the browser layer, not the OS layer? Indeed much of why I like Linux distros is that when I change a setting it stays changed. Actually, what "sponsored crap" is even coming from the OS vendor in a Linux distro?