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Attitudes to wages vary so much.They're probably relative to the costs of living.
There's a job offer I looked at a while ago (just moments before the pandemic started), for a company in London. The pay was typical for non-FAANG companies. I did some math on it, and quickly discovered that:
- If I can do the job remotely from Poland, I'm instantly becoming a high-earner. There are jobs locally that pay comparably, but they're the ones other people point at when they say SWEs are overpaid.
- If I have to move to London, the pay is shit. I'd be moving with my family (wife and then a 1yo daughter). I'd have to rent out a smallish 2-room apartment on the other side of London, with 40-60 minutes commute one way (bus -> metro -> bus), and the pay would barely cover rent + daycare for the kid, meaning if we wanted to eat something more ambitious than ramen, my wife would have to either stay at home (forging daycare), or find a decent job herself. Forget saving any money.
Now, it's not currency power difference - it's cost of living difference. The little bits of money we'd be able to save if we reduced our standards of living hard wouldn't translate to much spending power back in Poland either way.
After doing the math, I've decided the value add of being in London vs. being in Kraków (a major city in Poland, with an active tech community) is not worth the reduction of quality of life, and near-complete drain of disposable income. I double-downed on remote work, enjoying costs-of-living arbitrage for as long as I can.
(And it's a matter of time before this ends. While the pandemic dramatically increased the choice in remote work jobs, it also put the topic of CoL arbitrage in the spotlight, so now businesses have it easier to coordinate and capture the surplus for themselves instead, under the guise of employee fairness.)
EDIT: also your German colleague might be a special case, because AFAIK in Germany, software jobs are underpaid compared to the rest of the world, even accounting for currency power and costs of living. A German colleague of mine, working for a German software company servicing industry clients, once complained to me that he's sad that on - in his opinion decent, for Germany - software salary he can barely afford to keep the family afloat, and that's with his wife also working, whereas a "bad, no-good" relative of his earns way more than that doing occasional construction work...