Not in my experience. I probably have 10 to 15 credit cards for over a decade, and only once have I had a fraudulent transaction. And even if there was, you simply call the bank, dispute it, and that’s the end of that. Same with recurring charges.
It is even less of a problem going forward since EMV and contactless have become standard.
I'm not sure what you mean by "happens once every couple of years for most people."
Maybe I'm wrong and all of that can be blamed on credit card fraud, but I'm not so sure.
I’m pretty sure it’s gas stations and airport merchants. But it could be hacked online stores.
Amex is good at catching it.
Pnc bank on the other hand wad bad. My work card got used shorty after flying from sfo and PNC bank let them ring up 2,000 of hotel fees and didn’t flag any of it, and due to how the work cards work I didn’t find out until a month or more later