I think most iPhones on offer are a fair bit thicker than their Android counterparts. Specifically, most Google Pixel and Samsung Galaxy phones are smaller than all but the Mini iPhones.
I personally really wish for a flag ship phone like the Galaxy S21 Ultra that doesn't have such a huge camera array.
Yeah I'd much prefer a phone that's what, 1mm thicker? Maybe 2 at a push
Only non-minor damage I’ve suffered is I broke the volume down button (the spring behind it, really) on my Xs Max. Minor scratches I don’t care about. I’m pretty amazed at how durable the phones actually are and, if I break one now, it’s probably an $85 screen and an hour of my time or worst case a $400-600 replacement phone.