There is a not so subtle implication of your comments being voted down that those claiming HN is not an instance of social media would be well-advised to reflect on.

That is exactly my point.

"I don't want to stop eating food, I just want food that is not going to harm me while I eat it"

"I don't want to stop breathing air, I just want air that is not going to harm me while I breath it"

I don't want to cease all contact with other people. I want to interact socially in non-harmful ways.

Food and air sustain your life, they don't create chemical dependencies.