To the dead comment that wrote "If you're a man and don't understand what I'm talking about above, then expect to be blindsided by your family after career changes": as if this thread didn't start by implying a "real man" would blindside the mother of his child with startup plans without considering her input. You condescendingly refer to female psychology and a need for security, without stopping to look at your own selfish motives that started all this?