Apologies for sidetracking from the main subject of the thread but are you referring to me as "he"? If so, can I ask why?
Counterpoint: I see many threads that get off-topic from the original post, and yet downvotes for them seem…random. Some off-topic sub-threads become lengthy and lively.
Colour me "confused".
Oh well, I suppose I'll start calling everybody a "she" by default, then.