So your response to a person with brown skin say that their experience doesn't matter? Why doesn't it matter because you read that they where lucky or that you experienced something different?
Surely that makes it 1:1 ? A tie, a dead-heat.
Unless once person's anecdotes count more? Is that what you want?
So yes they are lucky to have not experienced it.
That's ok, by then they will be white.
Just like how the grand children of the victims of the holocaust are both white and Nazis at the same time.