As a daily driver, I'd recommend a setup of an official LineageOS device, combined with a set of Apps to increase the level of privacy:
- AppWarden to check for trackers and loggers
- RethinkDNS as a VPN firewall and adblocker
- Privay Browser (f-droid build)
- Permission Manager X to remove permissions from Apps via AppOps
- OsmAnd for Navigation
- Oeffi for Public Transport Navigation (in Germany)
- Element or Telegram FOSS for chat, because Signal still requires microG or other Google Services for their auto backup, which I don't agree with.
I would also recommend to bet on LineageOS because the community is vast, and it's more likely to survive (given the past with Cyanogen and its company) than other forks that are maintained by 1-3 people.
Personally, I hope that phosh and plasma mobile can be feasible app alternatives and I hope that Purism and the Pine movement can change the ecosystem.
But, as of now, developing a GTK4 or QT5 app (compared to making an Android app) is still PITA and seriously lacks better development tools and IDEs.