Scene referred is very much a cine-thing and I know of no other still image software that uses it. dt v3.6 made scene referred default.
Aurélien has been one of the driving forces behind the switch to scene referred and his hour long explanations of the new modules can be found on his YouTube channel[1]. Boris has a YouTube channel[2] which is quite the opposite. You watch him edit in silence and you will pick up the craft.
darktable is made up of modules. The Filmic RGB module takes a central part of the editing workflow in scene referred. This is where to go if you need help getting started: https://discuss.pixls.us/t/lets-learn-filmic-rgb-your-one-st...
RawTherapee has a more traditional, display referred, approach. If you want local adjustments (which you will want), you need to use nightlies until 5.9 is released.
[1] https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmsSn3fujI81EKEr4NLxrcg
[2] https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMbDlOwmmQnkRmcb2_5WERg