I'm actually really glad to hear it. Though, I wonder about the "rails doesn't scale" mantra, is that really more for active record? In your experience is active record the biggest out of the box bottleneck?
Instead of "Rails doesn't scale" we should say "Rails runs on Ruby which means that it will consume significantly more CPU and more memory* compared to something else"
In my case, 1 extra server (my estimate) was a small price to pay for developer happiness.
* unless you are running JRuby