Nicholas Kristof (an American journalist with possibly pro-American biases, but one who I think has a pretty good track record of honest reporting), has pointed out that Afghani women may enjoy less rights under the new administration, and there are many who have worked for pro-Western NGOs that are fearing for their lives. I'm not sure things will "just be life as usual" for all citizens, particularly women, under Taliban rule.
Source: https://twitter.com/NickKristof/status/1426546421906362368?s...
Very few things are ever what all people want, but when the overwhelming majority seems to be fine with something, it's fair to say they don't mind it. If e.g. an election is decided with a 80/20 split, the electorate "wanted that person to win", even though some didn't. On average, they do. Getting into semantic over it isn't achieving much.
https://inews.co.uk/news/world/afghanistans-first-female-may...
Likewise, don't assume you know what the natives, which aren't a homogeneous group at all, mind and don't mind.
I know Afghanistan isn't exactly middle east but the regime change wars were all identical. Libya is another example.