I always try to keep this in mind, Valve which famously has a completely flat structure, ended up turning into an environment where things like popularity and ability to dispense resources defined the practiced org structure. Be careful what you wish for.
Do adults have judgement of pre-pubernecent 14 year olds? I mean, maybe some do, but...
What happens is that we learn to "hide" our impulses in more social acceptable behavior.
We didn't have that many bully's when i grew up but most of them are just slightly more polished version of themselves.
But when they are drinking or emotions are high they revert back. (which is bad since 2 of them are cops now)
I am not saying that person cannot change his life and ways around. I know some that have done that. But most people (in my expirience) don't
On the contrary! Good personality traits evolved because they make for good leaders.
…which makes me depressed about being on the spectrum because it means I had to accept I could never be a “leader”.
(Well, I am a technical lead, it’s in my job-description, but that’s only because I get -Wpedantic on peoples’ code - and not because I can inspire people)
It’s especially noticeable when you’re not one of the in-crowd.