> I do think in the big picture what really matters for the most is really just a good web browser.
If you prefer web apps. A lot of people don't prefer web apps and for good reasons.
> macOS for the best touchpad, security and speedy open-lid-to-machine-actually-usable time
I can't speak about the touchpad, but Mac OS isn't immune to vulnerabilities and there have been multiple questionable privacy practices. Linux tends to cold boot faster, and can suspend and unsuspend just as quick if not quicker.
> Windows got good desktop performance and nice commercial software library
And Linux has even better desktop performance. Many people would see the open source software benefits of Linux as a pro, not to mention Windows package management still being significantly behind Linux. Many people are also very happy with gaming on Linux.
> For servers, it's pretty much always Linux or possibly some BSD. Minimal, easy to admin, fast, efficient and secure if configured correctly.
The same can be said about desktop too.