I've been effectively remote for years. But do you honestly believe that the highest-paying SV tech employers will have a problem hiring people because they're less remote-friendly than some other companies are?
I don't think Apple et al. will have trouble finding talent, but they may have trouble attracting "the best and brightest" if they require that you go into an office.
Then again, maybe they don't want to hire people who will prioritize mental health and family over work. "Best and brightest" is often a thinly veiled way of saying "willing to over-work and sacrifice personal life for the bottom line".
eg: a 10h weekly commute better be worth at least $75k USD