We are allowed to rank them by our preferences.
I do not wish males to be treated more expendable than necessary. I wish they would live fulfilling life.
Catholic church was around in Europe as a force since early Middle ages. Wouldn't call it new, unless you have sources to contrary.
You can argue that about literally anything. Everything is a matter of "a different society" once it's been accepted as the new default
You mean the kind in which we live right now, and where birth rates are well below replacement values?
> The current society we are in where we expect or desire pair bonding for life with an exclusive mate is rather new and unstable.
This is wrong. Stable pair bonds are a feature of nearly all advanced societies. The reasons are game theoretic.