> I despise this work (even though I do basic carpentry), and I fully consider it work that detracts from my life.
I felt that way when I bought my house too. My experiences:
Get used to the house never being fully OK. Things will continue to break, but over 90% of them aren't urgent. By the time I get one thing fixed (either by myself or by paying someone), something else is broken. That's OK. As time goes by, you realize that most of these things aren't really that important.
Yes, my toilet has a leak so I've turned it off for now: I have 2 others in the house. It's not urgent.
I cannot make ice in my fridge because the water hose to the fridge is leaking - had to shut off faucet. Am I going to chuck an otherwise good fridge over this? No. So for the past so many years, I manually add the water to the ice maker to make ice.
My over-the-stove microwave died. Twice. Am I going to rush and buy another brand new one? No. I'll wait till there is a sale. In the mean time, I can get a perfectly good used microwave for $20.
The list goes on and on.
If you want everything working all the time, then it will be a major pain.
Just learn how to find decent professionals/contractors, and learn to research prices before calling them.