On the one side its indeed problematic that Microsoft (and others in the industry in general) hardly ever ask for permission for data to train models.
On the other side, if you consider AI and computers to be similar to humans, then it's not an issue at all because humans also learn by reading code or information from various sources that are copyrighted or stuff they havent paid for directly (eg a library or "I'm just browsing in a book store" are an interesting for example, the later some books stores actually dont like).
For poisoning the well kind of tactics, the author forgets that you poison the well for everyone - not just ML.
An issue not brought into the mix with Copilot is that computers are superior in their memory and the amount of learning they can do (even now already in specialized domains), and hence maybe the fear, long term issues (incl ethical ones) and people being upset should actually come from that angle.
You know, a computer that can reprogram itself seems like maybe a bad idea.