I never much liked PFsense as a project. It feels very convoluted, and the hardware they sell (I was an early adopter of the then-new SG1000 appliance) is laughably exaggerated in its capabilities
But the Wireguard event is where they went from "incompetent" to "malicious" in my eyes
I ordered a Rasberry Pi 4 compute module and this accompanying ethernet breakout kit after seeing a review from Jeff Geerling (Raspberry Pi accessory mad scientist) and am currently waiting for it to arrive https://www.dfrobot.com/product-2242.html
I know I could just use something like OpenWRT, indeed I do have a lot of respect for the OpenWRT project. But I feel that the distro is more geared toward, well, routers. Devices with maybe 32 megs of flash storage and a slow MIPS CPU. Not a moderately powerful ARM machine with 8 gigs of RAM and gigabytes of SD or eMMC storage