How is this comment shocking to you? I actually was using the stock price and public information on their earnings to make a point. The point being that no, these companies aren't losing customers in droves and if you look at their performance from a 3 or 5 year perspective, most breaches have had very little material impact on the companies.
I disagree with you on SolarWinds being fucked... Sure, lots of folks are going to drop it, but they are closing new deals. The types of people that buy things like SolarWinds aren't buying the products because its a good technology.
Not sure what insurance you have been looking at, but many of the larger businesses will essentially write out what they want covered (for example IR, infrastructure replacement due to hacking, business loss due to downtime, professional service implementation, support, PR assistance, etc.), and then the insurance company will come up with a price based on their calculations of risk.
Sure, if an SMB goes and gets a "cyber policy" they are gonna be lots of technicalities, just like a mass market homeowners policy.