See I want to believe this, but I’ve seen people in these sort of situations at later stages of life. I used to work with a guy probably twice my age. He was a software developer, but his career was a crapshoot because of circumstances and I suppose not understanding his options. He was never married, didn’t really have any friends, and in the time I knew him the family he had nearby was dying off. It was pretty apparent he was a lonely person and he used to invite me to just hang out and I would often oblige because nearly anything beats sitting in front of a screen mindlessly scrolling.
But it was always apparent to me that of the young people in the sort of situations that OP, myself or many others in this thread find themselves, at least some of us will become that person. Sure some, probably many will end up lucking out or embracing a sort of life style to escape it, but not everyone can win, and I’m not putting any money on luck.
I personally don’t like to describe myself as a “loser” as it tends to invoke a sort of societal caricature of some guy in a dead-end or no job, without a ton of money or luxuries who maybe indulges in some hedonistic activities on the side. Actually I’d much rather be that person because the ones I’ve known have actually managed decent relationships and have had interesting stories to tell. I have working the whole day and then going home to the internet, or perhaps a bar or club where I’ll drink too much and only ever arrange in very superficial conversations.