This is a
great question for new users of jQuery, or indeed any software I need to download and integrate with my software/website. When a user is hit with malware, it affects just them (and maybe their email/facebook friends). If I download malware and incorporate it into my software, then I'm now distributing it to my users!
So how I do it is I look for the community. github is a good place to look. HN is itself a good source of vetting. Google, certainly, but not the first link I find. In fact, when I first heard about jQuery, I didn't assume that the "real" site could be trusted either: if I'm going to install this on my site, and serve it to people who trust me, then it had better be trustworthy.
Now imagine I run a tutorial website, and people come to my site because they trust me, and then they install software they copied from me (or my links), and distribute that to their users. Wow. Kudos to the author: I think it was bad form to blame google here, but the fact that he admitted it all does a lot to reestablish trust.