Now visualizing them can become much more tricky but mathematically we can still describe them.
Thus to bring it to your point about time as the fourth dimension if you want to ask your friend to meet you for lunch in the empire state building, you would have to give him the longtotude and latitude of the Empire State building (x and y) the floor to meet you on (third dimension z) but you would also have to give him the time to meet you, time being the 4th data point and ergo the 4th dimension.
Honestly what confuses me is what special distinction does time get to make it not considered a dimension like the others?