Where in Brooklyn? I've had gigabit for around 70 dollars in two apartments here in Downtown Brooklyn, and in general NYC generally does have pretty good fiber availability at reasonable prices
Also it's not like Verizon is your friend either; they just don't (yet) have any incentive to screw you.
These companies are apparently all run by greedy scum. I would much prefer if it were run by lazy greedy bureaucrats instead; at least then theoretically I can write a letter to my local legislators about it and complain at city hall.
Your absentee super or out-of-state landlady wouldn't be allowed to stand in the way of you getting hot water, why should they be able to get in the way of other utilities?