> Tangential, but you contextualization ADHD as the lack of working memory is a light bulb moment for me.
It was for me, too. I've recently been reading about ADHD and people's experience with it. I've always had my suspicions, but never in a serious enough context to make any decisions about it. Reading people's experiences feels like talking to a long lost friend from a parallel universe.
I certainly have had opportunities to get an actual diagnosis, especially during my childhood, but the onus was always placed on me or my parents to take action. My parents were unmotivated by stigma and I was unmotivated by my ADHD symptoms.
So here I am, 28 and trying to motivate my ADHD brain to navigate America's absurd - and unnecessarily confrontational - healthcare system so I can get a diagnosis and medication/therapy.
> I really should go for the long-overdue- prescription meeting I keep avoiding. :\
I can't speak for the experience of people who have been using medication, but as someone who has spent decades without it, I would strongly encourage you to do that.
Good luck getting your ADHD brain to do the follow through!