This was a good argument a couple of decades ago. Now? Keep in mind that most devices in this planet are ARM-based, ever since we started talking about 'smartphones'. They have been running these interpreters for a long time now. Most applications and libraries of any importance have been ported.
> If I choose AMD or get an M1 Macbook, I'm going to have a much poorer sense of how the things I'm working on would behave in production.
I thought that's what staging environments were for? Plus scale tests? A laptop provides a pretty poor proxy for a server environment behavior. For starters, they are not really the same spec, are they? Are you running a Xeon-based laptop?