If you find it offensive that sometimes people are treated differently (intentionally or not) because of their gender or race you wouldn't be alone!

But, whether these concerns are real or just perceived, they won't go away simply by preventing people from talking about them. That just reinforces the perception of injustice.

Racism and gender bias is rather en vogue these days, just against one very specific group of people.

I stopped looking at this site (.dev) as it turned in to a big SJW mess and less about technical and career growth.