I really wanted to use mint, but couldn't bring myself to give away my bank password.
I resorted to writing my own tooling using puppeteer running on my machine to automatically login to my bank accounts and download the CSV exports of my transaction data for each bank. I then normalize that transaction data, and import the data into Lunch Money.
It was a pretty big hassle to write and get working reliably(ish), but I'm super happy now that it's done. Every 2-3 weeks I run the script, and 5 minutes later all of my transactions are available in Lunch Money. I have the peace of mind of knowing that I'm not exposing my banking credentials to random third parties.