> Personally, I think for the extra $500/month, buying is a better choice than renting; at least for me.
Let's do the math. Nobody is getting a 1.1million mortgage for 3k/mo, so let's pick something conservative but more realistic.
According to zillow, for a 3k/mo payment you can get a 520k loan with a 20% (130k) downpayment, 30 years with an average 3%. You'll be lucky to keep it to 3% for the next 30 years but we'll let that stay. This 3k/mo payment includes estimated property taxes etc., but no home maintenance costs - there's going to be 50k or so of that over the 30 years.
So after 30 years, you've got a 650k house + whatever appreciation it has over that time, minus the 50k expenses. Historically house appreciation is about the same as inflation, so if we stay in today dollars that washes out. After 30 years, you walk away with 600k (todays dollars). If we pretend it won't cost you anything extra, 650k
What if you stayed renting and invest that 130k? Stock market long term average is about 7%, net inflation about 4%. So lets use that, I'm cheating by stating in 2021 dollars and you just keep investing the $500/mo difference.
Take 130k today, invest for 3% with a 500/mo contribution for 30 years.
Result is: $601,000 (again, sticking in today dollars as i've zeroed out inflation)
Do the same thing at 4%: $760k
Base on historic market, you're likely somewhere in between. Looks like it's not a huge difference, which shouldn't surprise you. This means that pretty minor differences in your life circumstances can push you one way or another, but nothing is obviously compelling.
(Ok one thing jurisdictionally dependent I didn't mention, there can be tax implications of this or not, depending on where you live. Ymmv.)