In 1915, my father's family was living in Erzurum. While the men of the house were leaving for the mosque after the law passed, they warned the woman at home about not opening the door for whatever reason.
Their neighbors were Armenians for 40+ years and my father's family were their landlords. They never had anything unpleasant, but they wanted to be cautious nevertheless.
After they left, their neighbors came to say farewell. They opened the door. They killed everyone at home. Then the Armenians went to the mosque, killed all men there. Then burned the mosque down.
We recall this incident as war times, shit happens and never make a big issue of it. I personally had Armenian friends (we've grown apart, just life happened, nothing else). I never had any problems with them, and never will, but this "you planned and executed an ethnic cleansing" stuff is one-sided.
It was war, it was ugly. There are other factors at play, but I don't want to dig deeper. It's a big ugly hole which burnt everyone, and as a planet we should leave this ugly thing behind, because it became a political weapon of sorts.
We can discuss if everyone leaves the hate aside and talk over it. Unless that time comes, this is my only comment on that issue.
Also, I want to re-iterate that I don't hate any human being just because they've born under a certain flag, and I don't want revenge or anything. I just want to be able talk about this without being labeled this and that.
Have a nice day.
Edit: Downvoting won't bring my family back, thanks.