this feels very dangerous though. people are fundamentally animals and sex is tightly interwoven with evolutionary biology in a way that drugs are not. decoupling sex from social interaction may be axiomatically wrong in the same way that removing rewards for performance is axiomatically wrong - people are just wired that way. no one wants to be CEO of an international company and get paid the same amount as an 18 year old data entry assistant. i think there is a similar pressure regarding mate selection and sex that exists regardless of culture.